»a year ago
Friday, April 24, 2015
2014
Last year was another fairly good year for me,
and I hope it’s the same for you or even better year!
Fortunate enough to travel to two
different countries in the year, to experience the different living pace and to
widen my own perspective about the world, human and life is always fulfilling.
To me travel may be a way of learning new things, and where new adventures
awaits as you may not know what exciting events waiting to be discovered. It is
also a journey of self-discovery for me, where sometimes I’m surprise of how
far I’m willing to venture out things if I really want to (within means of
course). Travelling with friends or colleagues is its own lesson itself, and
sometimes making it a much worthwhile adventure you will never forget.
Attended a close friend’s wedding
near the end of 2014. Witness a beautiful yet simple wedding reception both the
day and night event. And yes, we are at that stage, where most of our close
friends or acquaintances are all ready to tie the knot period. I’m sure many
has been the victim of the question, “When’s your turn?” every single time they
meet someone old, or often after a wedding season. It has definitely cross my
mind no doubt, but as to “when” – probably will say when the times come, you
will know? Not rushing and I will not want to put myself or my partner into
being “pressured” to do something just because we are at the right age or
because everyone is doing it. It shall be at our own term and will, to be
married or not shall not be the concern to others than the one maintaining the
relationship itself.
That aside, to flourish in
relationship shall take two parties’ effort because it is a two way street. Any
kind of relationship is based on trust and requires effort, cause nothing good
in life is free. And I have always been
very blessed to have met so many beautiful people with beautiful soul and to be
able to share similar qualities and grow into a decent person with each other,
to be by each other’s side to face the downs of life and always the one to be
excited with in the goods in life. I think friendship is something that I hold
very close to, besides family because in my opinion I feel that a friend gives
so much more and often underappreciated. Why? Family sticks by you, makes sense
because you’re blood related, and your spouse (partner) will have a legitimate
relationship with you to build a family, but a friend (from stranger to
becoming your friend) is someone with no blood relating stranger to you but can
become the closest extended family you could ever ask for – with no other
obligation/entitlement and yet they’re the one you could depend on when things
go sour (at home or out). I often feel that friendship is such an extraordinary
relationship, because you are not drive by (lust/love/greed/ feelings) but just
genuinely feeling of at ease and content to have such a friend by your side and
that someone you can bitch with without feeling guilty (because they don’t
judge you, and better they join in the bitchin).
But life goes on, and along the way
people tend to move towards their own direction, just be happy for them. Although
it may be saddening where you left things unsaid, but I believe if the time is right we may be
united again in a way or other – if not then I’m glad that I ‘ve get to know
you, and create some story-telling worthy journey together and hope that the
life ahead treats you well and beyond.
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»International Happiness Day
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Today
is International Day of Happiness, here to wish everyone to have a BRIGHT &
HAPPY day + definitely year ahead!
Have
you ever thought to yourself “What makes me Happy?” – Well yes I do!
I’m
trying to recall the time when is the moment in my life that I’m genuinely
happy, and to be honest I kinda choked!
That’s
the thing, in my opinion precious moment does stay in your mind… for a while.
Unless it’s something extravaganza that stitched in and being reminded every
second of your waking moment, I would think they tend to fade fairly quickly. And
to think that nowadays, people are more concern on capturing these “special
moments” in their hi-tech gadgets than to experience the whole genuine
sentiments that is impossible to re-live. Don’t get me wrong, i was one of the “people”
mentioned too, and then I realized that actual and true moment should be felt
and emphasized. Oh yes you can captured tons of the best photo of the night,
but will you be able to captured how you felt at that exact moment and re-feel
how you felt? No I don’t think so.
Point
being made, its entirely your free choice but bear in mind that you won’t be
able to capture or live that passed moment “again”, make it all count! ;)
Whether
it’s a once in a lifetime event like the weddings, graduation or even everyday
kind of moment, lunches with your buddy, gathering, be engage in it and look
them in the eye and hear what they are telling you. They made the choice to be
and share their precious time with you; everyone’s time is as precious as they
last.
Okay
now, think happy thoughts and dance to the "Happy" tune!
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»Its 2014!
Friday, January 03, 2014
HHHHHAAAAAAPPPPPYYYYYYYYY NEEEWWWW YYYYEEEEEAAAARRRRRRRR!!!!
Hope that 2013 has been treating everyone well, and let the 2014 be even greater for all!
2013 has been great I suppose, graduated, get to work and surprisingly climbed Mt KK( IKR!) but yeah inevitable ups and down along the way but who says life is all about smooth sailing? :)
2014 begins with going to work instead of going back to Uni, in need to get use to the sound of that. Part of growing up girl, I hear that everyday in the back of my mind now. Nonetheless, looking forward to everyday of the year its great to be alive & living!
Wish everyone a prosperous and great year ahead!
xoxo
Lis
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»Twenty.Four
Sunday, September 22, 2013
I'm officially:
*24
*Graduated
*Employed (technically)
I feel:
# Blessed
# HAPPY
# Thrilled
# Content
# Uncertain
I take this opportunity to thank my beloved family and friends for being there to celebrate another year of joyful moment. Birthdays make relationship grows fonder and closer, and to me I love receiving birthday Cards the most. Its the only time of the year (maybe one of the many time) that you would know how you've affected people's life, or how they thought of you and what they wanted to say to you when they wouldn't normally. I always say and will tell them that i feel really blessed and honored to have them in my life, which is from the bottom of my heart. Because i know with no doubt that i have made a lifelong friends along the course of 24 years of journey, and i really hold each and everyone of them close to my heart although we may not be around each other as often we'd like to but i know when the time we finally get together it will be just as awesome as it shall be.
For the rest of the years to come, i still wish for the good & nothing but the best for all of you for your future endeavor and may we be the friends like a family till we're old and grey.
xoxo
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»Video
Monday, July 08, 2013
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»Unproductive weekend
Saturday, May 04, 2013
LAST PAPER ON TUESDAY! and I'm not done studying, the so called UNI life will be over by then too.
Should I be happy and laugh out loud, or should i not. I'll be glad that there will be no more EXAM(s), but will definitely miss the carefree use of time as an undergraduate. And of course fellow mates, that has been through all the semesters together doing presentations, projects and all sorts of assignments thrown our way and we've survived it all together. Really hope everyone will graduate with flying colors and still be able to see one another after graduation.
Time really waits for no one, gotta make sure its spent how you want it and not regret it. Ciao!~
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»Make the year count... hisssss
Saturday, February 09, 2013
WISHING MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS A PROSPEROUS CHINESE NEW YEAR!
MAY THE YEAR BE A GREAT ONE FOR YOU
=D
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